“Benevolent
sexism makes men more smiley when they interact with women, and that’s bad
news. Men who put women on a pedestal may be the wolves in sheep clothing
hindering gender equality,” stated a brief article in the “A” section of a
local paper recently.
“A
small study examining nonverbal cues in interactions between men and women
finds that men deemed to have high ratings of ‘benevolent sexism’- attitudes
toward women that are well-intentioned but perpetuate inequality- finds that smiling
and other positive cues increase when this kind of sexism is present.”
No. And
no.
Women
make men more smiley when they interact with women. (At least the genuine ones
do). Men’s smiling and other positive cues increase when this sex is present, not because of sexism.
Do we really have to investigate why this
might be in 2015? (It’s no wonder we don’t even have replacement fertility
rates in the West).
And then label this smiling as
“bad” and attempt to cast all those guys who smile at a woman as “wolves in
sheep clothing?”
What about all the women who smile-
or wink- and flirt with men? Those now empowered to ask the guys to dance?
Those engaging in one night stands?
And what, then, can we make of the
countless millions of women around the world in love with “Fifty Shades of
Grey,” and men like Christian Grey?
I’m tired of the hypocrisy. This
kind of sexism against males is not
benevolent. It’s purely agenda driven.
So I conducted my own “small” study
and here are my “findings”: no man can say the words “puppy” or “panties”
without smiling.
Period.
And it’s not because he wants to
hurt either of them.
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